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about time to make a new entry, this one’s about how we guys think about you girls, how would you know, and how do we know if you feel the same for us…

there are so many ways how would you(girls) would know if we(guys) like you, sometimes it’s almost too obvious coz we just can’t hide it. sometimes so subtle and we’ll leave you thinking and asking yourself if we like you… here are some things too obvious for you not to notice…

1. we stare… if we do that, we’re mesmerized, we’re wondering what is it that’s in you that makes our eyes stick to yours even if your not looking back. we stare coz there’s somethin about you we would want to find out what. BUT staring is rude, so what do we do if we don’t stare? we do "small frequent feeding", it’s when we glance at you for a quick second and look away, do this for about ten times in a minute…

2. we deny… of course you wouldn’t ask us directly, YOUR friends would ask us, and normally we deny. it’s the most commonly used defense mechanism, why is it called a defense mechanism? coz we don’t wanna get caught so we deny… but nowadays denying is not a great idea, it’s a give away.

3. we like to be around you… why? because we wanna know how it feels like being around you, next to you, in front of you, behind you, anywhere around you, it’s a taste of how it feels being with you… it’s a quick fix for our curiousity about you…

4. we keep in touch… we text, we call, we IM you as much as possible but not to the extent that we annoy you, we text if you dont reply we text you the following day, we call if you dont pick up we call next time… but thing is we keep in touch, we wanna hear your voice, we wanna know what’s goin on with you, we wanna be a tiny speck in your lives but at least we get to be a part of your life even just a speck. just to hear your voice is an instant reward for us, so please pick up when we call…

those are the easy giveaways, on to the subtle ways…

5. we worry… we wouldn’t admit that we do worry about you but we think about where you are, what you doin, are you ok, have you eaten, we sometimes ask but not so often, it’s a compliment to you, why? coz we’re thinking about you all the time… not only that, coz when worry about you it means we’re actually starting to care about you… it means we become more attached to you… now we’re getting somewhere…

6. we try to ask you out, now how is that subtle? coz we dont ask you out directly like "wanna catch movie?, grab dinner?" we do it indirectly… how do we ask you out indirectly? why would i wanna tell you that? i don’t wanna get caught… =) 

7. we sometimes (if not all the time) we daydream about you… this, you cannot notice, will never notice, we do it on our time, it’s not a "give away" that we like you coz we wouldn’t admit we daydream about you, if we daydream, we ADMIT TO OURSELVES that we like you…

8. we do what you ask us to do, small favors, etc, we do it without question, we do it coz it wouldnt mean doing somethin for you, we do it coz we want to… sometimes even the most bizarre of requests… =)

9. we keep track of you, we ask around what’s goin on about you, we ask your friends how are you, we just wanna know, the more we know about you the better we feel, specially when it concerns us…

10. we try our best to catch your attention, how do we do that? can’t explain, it’s hard to make a scene out of nowhere, making a blog for them could work…
just hope it wont backfire…

those are just 10 few things we do to tell you we like you, feel something bout you… now how do we know that you feel the same way about us?

the female species are more emotionally mature than we are, so what do we expect from them?

they handle themselves better, they dont easily admit that they like us, they don’t stare sometimes they won’t even look at us coz for them if we catch them looking at us it’s an easy cue that they like us… they handle themselves better coz they wont come close to us, they want us to come close to them, so they wont even go near us, it’s us who has to go near them…

but they communicate well, they respond to our texts, they answer our calls, we sometimes talk alot, even hours at a time, if these happens, you have a slight chance that they like you too… but you never know for sure, why? coz they handle it pretty well, they dont admit easily, coz it’s easier for them when we admit that we like them FIRST rather than them admitting to us… so how do we know if they feel the same for us? WE DON’T… we wouldn’t really now if they like us, they’re good at hiding they’re emotions, remember they’re more emotionally mature… only way we would find out is time, coz in time they’ll admit… if they do then "YAHOOO!" if not, then "oh well"… just hope that they do, give’em time, they don’t wanna get pressured, and we dont wanna pressure them…

ty for spending time,

GBY

maRu

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